tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30100921.post482388673157409885..comments2023-10-28T09:22:50.834-05:00Comments on The Life of Me: My weekendWWhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10197522956439691745noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30100921.post-48046353647499351922010-04-08T19:54:57.843-05:002010-04-08T19:54:57.843-05:00I think you're right to be pissed. If you mad...I think you're right to be pissed. If you made plans he should stick to them, they shouldn't just be an afterthought or something he does when there are no storms to chase or decks to build. From what you've said on your blog, it's not like you guys have a lot of mutual free time, so when you do have free time, you have to make it count. Storms happen all the time and will continue to happen in the future, but even the best relationships take work. Unless I'm mistaken, stormchasing isn't his job, and neither is carpentry. It would be one thing if he was an ER doctor on had to be on call or something, but to cancel plans because of a fucking HOBBY? LAME! <br /><br />That being said, in these situations it's usually best to cool down and explain how you feel calmly and rationally. Maybe write it in a letter or email so you can get everything out there and not be interrupted. The important thing is to explain your feelings to him but not get worked up. Easier said then done, but it's the best way.<br /><br />*hugs*Carrie Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13273435332966491857noreply@blogger.com